1. Make People Disguise Themselves
If you want to hook up online, you must bring out the best in you. Many men and women embark on the road of camouflage in order to have a casual hookup. Men disguise themselves as tall, rich and handsome men, while women disguise themselves as fair-skinned and beautiful women. Such men and women begin to post items that do not belong to them and talk insincerely, such as taking selfies in a friend’s car, returning from a trip abroad and talking about it every day, and regularly posting selfies with various photo-retouching apps. The desire for hookups makes people become hypocritical and snobbery.
2. Make People Be Taken In
You finally ask the girl out through a series of blandishments. You just want to hook up with the girl, but after meeting, the girl will see if you have a car, ask you to have dinner with her and go to the movies. And even some girls want gifts from you. You already know that you have been deceived, but desire defeats reason. The impulse makes you step into the abyss step by step, and when you wake up, you realize that you have been squeezed out of a lot of money.
3. Degrade People’s Taste
Generally speaking, a woman in real life is uglier than in the picture. When you looked at the photos on the Internet, you felt that the other party was a beautiful woman. When you met, you found that the girl was not good-looking. You did not know the other person well. When you went to the hotel and took off your clothes and found that the other party's taste was extremely poor, so you were disappointed and had no interest in hooking up. After all, the psychological gap is huge, and the date hookup is extremely disappointing.
4. Stifle Feelings
Some men with girlfriends are also keen on hookups, so they secretly hook up with women behind their girlfriends’ back. They lie to their girlfriends every day and develop a habit of telling lies over time. But a lie will always be revealed, and they have to use one lie to round out another lie, so such men live in the lie all day long. They can’t control themselves, so they choose to sleep with others. Finally, the feelings they have worked hard to handle for many years are in vain.
5. Destroy the Faith
Originally you are an excellent person and believe in love. You are willing to have a tinder hookup relationship with the other person because you already have a good impression of the other person and have feelings through a long-term understanding. Finally, under the provocation of ambiguous words, you meet the other person, and find that the other party is the type you like, and everything fits well, so you go to bed with that person. But after going to bed, you feel empty and sad. Falling in love with the person you are dating, you start to worry about what the other person thinks about you. Slowly you become confused. After the casual relationship ends, you no longer believe in love. Because of the emptiness, you begin to find casual hookups constantly.
As a person with a sense of social responsibility, he or she may shame about casual relationships. If you are such a person, refuse to hook up so as not to go astray.
